Men Love Women Who Love Men

Are you a woman who truly loves men? So many

women seem to miss this all-important key to

a happy love life.

To love men is to delight in their company,

whether you have a romantic relationship

with them or not.

Do you genuinely delight in men, or does

the thought of men only bring to mind

your romantic troubles?

A woman who truly loves men is a special

kind of woman.

You can spot her by the way she interacts

with men. She enjoys the company of men -

even in casual conversation. She never

forgets that a man is a man.

Unfortunately, this kind of woman is often

instinctively disliked by the women who

don’t love men in the same way.

They consider her a threat because she

doesn’t play by their rules. She doesn’t

agree to underplay her feminine charm as

they all seem to want her to! And they

definitely don’t like that. Sad, isn’t it?

But many people reading this have

experienced this themselves!

It seems like many women decide at an early

age to stop looking like women – it was just

too much trouble anyway, they seem to say.

They were looking forward to getting married

so they could retire from all that hassle.

I think that’s a shame. A woman can be beautiful

and appealing and feminine at any age!

Some women maintain – “that feminine stuff -

that’s just not me.” Well, we all have to be

true to ourselves. But some women have

short-changed themselves and their men

by avoiding showing that they are womanly.

Somewhere along the line they were discouraged

from being appealing and the idea stayed with

them.

There’s an often repeated idea that women

tend to dress for other women than for men.

Hopefully, you’re dressing to please

yourself, but let’s face it – what we wear

does show both our regard for other people,

and tells the world how we want to be

perceived.

Does what you wear play up the fact that

you’re a woman, or is it something that a

man could wear just as easily as a woman?

The answer to that will tell you a lot about

where you stand with regard to truly loving

men – and reveling in your womanhood. (And

this does not require wearing a super-short

skirt or showing half a foot of cleavage!)

Some women constantly gripe about their lack

of success with men, but they are constantly

saying negative things – to men and women both.

They are looking for someone to blame instead

of looking for solutions.

It’s very possible to love men even if you have

had some very bad experiences with men in the past.

You can decide to blame all men for the bad

experiences you’ve had with some. You can

decide to make the good guys pay for the

mistakes of the bad guys in your past.

But all that does is make more sadness and

more distance from the love you truly desire!

Women who love men like being near men, talking

with men, hearing them laugh, hearing their views,

and being in male company.

Many of us were raised with the idea that we should

minimize the differences between the sexes rather

than celebrate it. Women who truly love men will

always recognize and celebrate the difference when

they talk to and spend time with a man. Men and

women are both all the happier as a result.

End of excerpt from Mimi Tanner